Sunday, 7 December 2014 a writer on writing but not writing...

He introduced his anecdotes with the phrase “as a writer…”

It’s been claimed he once referred to himself   “as a Creative”

I can’t forgive him for that. No one can. 

He would always talk about being a writer: it had always been a lifestyle, he said.
It was always about writing and never what he’d written, not in a selfless, noble kind of way and not in a conscious decision to appreciate the act as an ends in itself but because, it seemed, he hadn’t written much.

When he wasn’t talking about writing he taught others how to talk about writing.

He is often touted as a writer-in-residence.

At what residency he writes when he is being a writer-in-residence usually remains undisclosed. He has just returned from being a writer-in-residence in Madagascar, the residency being the whole island I silently presume. I asked him what he wrote about and he told me it wasn’t like that. He said it was about the experience. Did he experience any writing I almost asked, but on consideration resisted – he would answer that writing fell outside of experience being, as it is, the communication of experience. Which, if true, would be sad for writers – by extension consigned to inexperienced reflection, occasionally gifted with a glimpse of experience, experienced as a precious exception, cherished like an acorn to carry back and nourish experiential hibernation...bedding down in the long writerly winter. 

He was a firm subscriber to emotion recollected in tranquility. He told me how to cultivate tranquility, it involved

Herbal tea

writing lists

and finding the time to do nothing.

Everything from the shoes you wear to the walks you take, he said.

He then added, as an afterthought, that you also need an ‘online presence’. His ‘online presence’ said a great deal about writing. Here it was, his writing about writing. The pictures from his trip to Madagascar: June 17th the people here are beautiful, the landscape, my god the landscape! I can’t do justice to the landscape. In the absence of that justice were more pictures.

His ‘online presence’ also presented a history of his accolades – he had won prizes!

Prizes are not important, he told me. He had won five and told me how unimportant they were with frequent insistence.  

What I didn’t understand, he said, was that writing was not the pages in a book or the style of someone’s prose, nor was it each sentence or each paragraph. It was about what could not be read and, more often than not, what could not be written. He told me to imagine a coastal breeze, the history of my family or the sensation of acupuncture. I told him I’d never had acupuncture. Precisely, he smiled. And then, closing his eyes and nodding sagely, he repeated, precisely.

At gatherings he would introduce himself as a writer and me as a poet. I asked him why I was a poet and not a writer. It was because I wrote poetry, he said, and then quoted a line from a Cocteau film.



Why does prose get the monopoly on writing, I asked. This is no game, he answered.

I went to see him give a talk about writing. People knew he could talk about writing and he knew he could talk about writing and as a result he was often talking about writing. He stood behind a lectern and lifted up a book, releasing it theatrically from his clasp to let it drop to the ground. This is not writing, he said.

He often defined writing through negation. One day, having checked off everything that was not writing, he would find writing. It would be the unexpected and entirely inevitable kernel of everything he was, this he was sure of. But maybe this was his greatest strength as a writer – his infinite ability to abstain from writing. To defer, elude and hide from writing was a kind of athletic asceticism, slalom of discipline in the face of temptation. The best of writers will understand that writing is not in writing. He had five prizes to support this claim but of course they weren’t important, what was important was that the potential to write was left intact. Writing was the disappointing obfuscation of all that writing – at its best – desires. 

Being mute or the blank page, this is where writing truly survives.

A writer, he often said, paraphrasing the quote pinned above his desk, was someone for whom writing is near impossible. He liked to quote. All my writing is quoting, he said, and all quoting is writing in the sense that all writing is re-writing. That said, he said, I still believe that real writing is not a writing-over, as such, but somehow itself over writing, beyond writing. Writing is ideally not writing. That said, he said, I’ve just been commissioned to write a piece about urban regeneration and the importance of local libraries.

Surely that would involve writing, I said.

Eventually, yes, he conceded. He presented this impending need to write online. He posted a new flurry of pictures: mainly photos of road signs, traffic lights, shadows on shop shutters and one particularly luscious sepia shot of the local library. 

I visited him yesterday and he told me, sighing over a mug of camomile tea, that he felt decidedly uncreative.

I’m worried for him, in a distant uncaring kind of way.

He has started drinking more coffee and telling me repeatedly how frightening it is that there is so much to read, so much to read!

There isn’t time for experience or the experience of nothing, he has to read!

Sometimes, he tells me, he doesn’t think he’s a writer anymore, sometimes, he confesses, he thinks he might be a poet.

Has he written any poetry, I ask.

No, he replies, but he might as well, considering he doesn’t write anymore.

But I thought you never wrote, I thought that was what your writing was about?

He didn’t like this comment, nothing about it seemed to help.

At some point, some point soon, he wants a break from all this not writing. How, I ask. Are you going to stop being a writer? Or do you mean that in having a break from not writing you will actually then be writing and so…yeh, I petered out.  These decisions are beyond choice, he confided, and besides, not writing had never stopped him before.

Surely deciding not to write would necessitate a kind of conscious break from writing, I continued emboldened, surely that would, in a more definite way, stop you writing?

Yes – perhaps, he agreed, but it doesn’t stop me from being a writer.

It’s his new angle. He’s writing again.